Herpes Shocker Leaves Ex-Girlfriend
Depressed And Confused

Dear Harlan,

You find out that you have an STD called genital herpes from your ex-boyfriend and get treated for it! Now this is the point when you realize that you have to live with it for the rest of your life. Then you go through depression because every time some nice man tries to talk to you, you brush him away because you are afraid of what to say and how to tell this person. So you go to your doctor and ask "Can I have kids with this disease?" The doctor says yes, but to practice safe sex while on the treatment so you can improve. I don't believe that! I'm confused. I'm scared. I talked to my doctor already, and I hate that he gets my hopes up and makes me feel good. Who's going to accept me for this?

Shocked With Herpes

Dear Shocked,

You find out you have genital herpes. You feel like damaged goods. You think that no one will want you. Then you do research. You discover that as many as 1 in 4 sexually active women have genital herpes. You then find out that there are support groups, medications and millions of people who can help you. You tell your ex, so he can tell anyone else that he has exposed. You start dating again, and discover that guys who care about you won't reject you. You relax, come to terms with your disease and live your life again. For more information, visit The National Herpes Resource Center.

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