He's
Extremely Affectionate, As Long
As No One is Around
Dear
Harlan,
I'm
in love with this guy, and we have been together for five
months. At school, he ignores me until we are alone. Outside
school, he is so kind and loving. Help!
So
Confused
Dear
Confused,
"Kind
and loving" means not ignoring you in public.
There
are countless ways you can twist a relationship into something
beautiful and good, but the fact remains that your "kind and
loving" boyfriend ignores you in public - the mailman gets
more attention. That's just wrong. Command and demand the
respect you deserve, and ask him why he does this. Explain
that you won't put up with it. As far as you're concerned,
he's cheating, ashamed or embarrassed to be in a relationship,
and that's just not kind or loving. If he can't change his
ways or explain the reason, command the respect you deserve
from someone who can give you what you deserve.
