There's No Such Thing As Too Old To Dream

Hi Harlan,

I recently chose to leave a "comfortable" lifestyle to follow a dream. I was a high-school art teacher, owned my house and was fairly established in a small community. At the age of 48, I went back to school and received my second master's, in the History of American Decorative Arts. I worked hard in graduate school, wrote a thesis and took out a $40,000 student loan. Now, a year later, I am working a $10 an hour job and interning once a week at the Smithsonian for free. How do I break into the museum curator field? Or at least find a job that uses my education and my talents? Am I too old to follow a dream?

Still Dreaming

Dear Dreaming,

Too old to dream? Maybe too tired, but never too old. I love your story. Whether 48 or 18 - listening, doing and risking that IT will work is what living is about. And IT's working - even at $10 an hour.

From where I'm sitting, you've put yourself in a world where you're surrounded with people doing what you love to do (at least at your internship). Don't look for a job - first look for a path. Set up some meetings with curators you respect. Call it an informational meeting for a story you're researching. Buy them a cup of coffee or whatever curators drink. Ask them to share their story of how they got where they are today. Stay in touch and ask if they know of anyone who might need your assistance. Meet lots of people. Look for an association to which curators belong (try www.artcurators.org). Never stop believing, and you will find the answers. And along the way, you'll teach so many others to dream. See, you really are still a teacher.


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