1.
TAKE A RISK, ANY RISK
From finding
love, to demanding respect, to finding a new job, to reconnecting
with a long lost friend, TAKE THE RISK that you know in
your heart you need to take.
If
things go well, GREAT. If not, it's still GREAT. Record
the details of THE RISK and send them my way. Remember,
this is all in the name of risk-taking research. Yes, it's
nice to get the desired results , but this is about taking
risks and navigating through whatever comes your way. If
you hope for the best, and cplan for the worst, no matter
what comes your way, you'll be in a better place than when
you started. The I.R.P. is about being true to ourselves
and listening to what we know in our hearts we should say
and do.
2.
RECORD ALL THE DETAILS
Include where
it happened, when it happened, and what happened. If The
RISK doesn't go as planned, figure out what can you must
do the next time so that you can get the desired outcome.
If you don't know what you can do, do some research and
find out why things didn't go as planned. DO NOT ASSUME
YOU ARE THE PROBLEM. THE REASON MIGHT HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING
TO DO WITH YOU (or it might have everything) .
NOTE: When taking a relationhip risk, do not do the recording
during the date or you will be guaranteed no second date.
3.
Send in ALL
THE DETAILS
Include ALL details.
This
includes whether or not you achieved your desired results.
Should The RISK doesn't turn out as planned, figure out
the circumstance and decide if you can do something to change
the outcome. If changing the outcome means compromising
your character, don't change. Remember, there are many more
opportunities out there -- don't change who you are just
to get one person to like you.
NOTE:
For friends who want more, know that just letting a friend
know. even if the friend isn't interested, is okay. See
R.A.W. titled, "Friend Who Got More" entry.
4.
CONTINUE RISK-TAKING RESEARCH
Continue
research a ONE YEAR. Keep sending in results via
the I.R.P. forms. The more risks you take --- the more
comfortable you will become with the process and the more
success you will discover. If you find that you can't handle
the normal everyday adversity that comes with taking risk
after risk and following your heart, skip ahead to #7.
5.
PUBLISHING I.R.P. RESULTS
Your
letters, stories, and personal experiences will serve to
help create the largest risk-taking community, empowering
fellow risk-takers to find the courage to say what they
feel and do what they know if their hearts that must do.
6.
REMEMBER, IT'S ONLY RESEARCH!!!
Try to avoid
getting too emotional. Expect success. But also, expect
a good amount of adversity. REMEMBER, a success story isn't
about the results -- it's about taking The RISK and putting
yourself in the path of opportunity. The more risks you
take, the better chance you'll find what you're looking
for. An undesireable outcome
doesn't mean that you are defective or undesirable, it just
means someone decided to select someone or something that
better fits his or her needs. If you're not sure why your
risk didn't turn out as planned, don't just get angry or
become withdrawn, find out the truth. If the is too hard
to face, you're not ready to take The RISK.
7.
IF YOU CAN'T TAKE A RISK, TAKE A STEP BACK...
If
you discover that you CAN'T take THE RISK, then STOP your
risk-taking research and take a step back. What you will
need to do is "Train for the Sport of Taking Risks
"tm
Training is all about doing the things you need to do to
become more comfortable in your skin, both physically and
emotionally. Without proper training and people around you
who will support you, The Universal Rejection Truth tm
will wear you down, beat you up, and leave you too
wounded to take risks. And without taking risks, life will
become more about avoiding endless opportunities to feel
bad about yourself than exploring endless opportunities
to live a life fueled by passion.
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