Entry #93
REJECTION DIARY:


Boyfriend Gets Hosed When Girlfriend
Cheats With Fireman


Dear Harlan,

I'm stupid. I bought a $20,000 engagement ring for my girlfriend. She told me she spent the weekend in Niagara Falls with a fireman. She had met him six weeks ago. I proposed anyways. I still love her. Help me.

In Love & Rejected

Dear In Love,

Ahhh, you must love her honesty-- the fact that she can be so upfront and candid about her cheating and abuse of your love for her. You can guarantee this type of honesty will continue as she cheats on you throughout the years once you're married.

I can't imagine the amount of pain this must be causing, but I can promise you that there are other women who will not cheat on you, not disrespect you, and not neglect your love. We all have about 1000 soulmates running around the globe. Find another one - one that can love you and so blatantly hurt you. As for the ring, you can probably return it - at least the diamond. If your jeweler won't take it back then try a diamond wholesaler or auction it off on Ebay.

 





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