Harlan
Cohen was born naked.
He grew up clothed in the suburbs in Chicago until growing
up and heading off to college. The youngest of three brothers,
Harlan was the last to go to college. Harlan landed at the
University of Wisconsin in Madison, Wisconsin. He expected
it to be an easy transition -- he was wrong.
He
got dumped by his high school long distance girlfriend,
he didn't get into the fraternity he had been rushing, and
he didn't find his place in college. In high school he was
a big man on campus -- in college he was lost. His grades
were the only bright spot (he took refuge in class). After
dealing with all the highs and lows of college life, he
eventually found his place late second semester. Only now,
he had already decided to transfer. It wasn't the college
-- it was him. The next year, he headed to Indiana University,
the same college both his brothers attended, a more comfortable
fit. He decided to do his freshman year over again. The
second time was easier. He was comfortable with the uncomfortable.
He knew what to expect. He rushed a fraternity, found a
few groups of friends, got involved in clubs and organizations,
even found a few girlfriend along the way. Even when he
felt out of place he felt comfortable because he knew that
was normal. No one told him. And that's where this passion
for college life began.
At
Indiana University Harlan began writing for his college
newspaper, the Indiana Daily Student. After a summer
at The Tonight Show with Jay Leno (where he got the
idea), Harlan returned to campus and began writing his Help
Me, Harlan! advice column. The goal was to become one of
the only male syndicated advice columnists in the country.
Over the years, Harlan's advice column spread across the
country like a bad rash at a nudist camp. His advice column
appeared in local daily and college newspapers across the
country.
Today,
Harlan is one of the youngest and only male syndicated advice
columnists around. His Help Me, Harlan! column can
be read by over 4 million readers weekly appearing in such
newspapers as The Dallas Morning News, the Seattle
Times, the Pittsburgh Post Gazette, the St.
Paul Pioneer Press, South Florida's Sun-Sentinel,
and many other local daily and college newspapers. His writing
has also appeared in The Wall Street Journal Classroom
Edition, the Chicago Tribune, Chicken Soup
for The Teenage Soul III, and many other publications.
His insight and wisdom has been featured in The New York
Times, Psychology Today, Details magazine,
and Seventeen Magazine.
He
is the founder of Rejection Awareness Week and the president
of The International Rejection/Risk-Taking Project. He is
also a speaker who has visited over 300 college campuses.
He is a musician who has just released his first album,
Fortunate Accidents. And he is the author of the books,
Campus Life Exposed: Advice from the Inside and The
Naked Roommate: And 107 Other Issue You Might Run Into in
College. He resides in Chicago with a wife, a puppy,
and quadruplets. Actually, we're just kidding about the
quadruplets.