HARLAN
CHAT
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June 21, 2001 -
CHAT DIVA: Well, hello harlan
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Rough entry today
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but i somehow broke through the chat maze
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and I'm here...
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feel like i've been born
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and it's kind of messy around my feet, too
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So, how are you Diva?
CHAT DIVA: I'm a
little fried
CHAT DIVA: Just
got back from the beach
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Yeah, I bet you're delicious breaded :)
CHAT DIVA: Meow
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just kidding...
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it's hot here
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about 90 something
CHAT DIVA: but I
didn't apply enough sun screen ... :((
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I'm chatting in Chicago today
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Yes, indeed
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sunscreen
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Okay
CHAT DIVA: it's
all about the protection baby
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yes, and don't think sunscreen is an approved lubricant for
condoms
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I read this article
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that said a high percentage of sexually active teenagers think
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Vaseline
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can be used as a lubricant
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it can NOT NOT NOT
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be used as a lubricant
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only water based
intimatexpert: Vaseline
causes condoms to disintegrate
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exactly
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Okay, so, let's get moving
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this chat copyright Help Me, Harlan 2001
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Send in your comments to questions
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i want your replies, too
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because you guys are the ones who have been there and done it
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or have watched someone do it
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of have just heard it
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or smelled it
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or none of the above
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but your voice is sooooooooooo important
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so please
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send in comments in the ask question box
intimatexpert: KY
Jelly is the recommended lubricant -
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that's why they call her or him "intimatexpert" very
clever how she shares the "e"
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but Astroglide
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or one of the many other lubricants available in the condom
aisle
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near the condom
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that are "water based" should work
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if you're confused
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as the pharmacist
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or your doctor!!!
CHAT DIVA: hey angel
baby .. didn't get your question...
CHAT DIVA: Remember..
ask a question box
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Don't call her "baby"
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come on!!!
Area51_Conspiracy:
Harlan, I'm in a predicament. I desperately want to meet some
guys, but everytime I do, I always compare each one to HIM...my
one true love.
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is Him in *NSYNC
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because no one compare to Justin
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if HIM was the the right HIM
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you would be with HIM
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You're not with HIM
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so HIM
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can't be so great
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so start looking at HIM
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without making HIM to be IT
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because He's not all that
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break HIM down
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and look at HIM for what HE was and is
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because until then
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NO ONE can compare
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EVER!!!
CHAT DIVA: Hey everyone..
here's a hint -- Sending your question in 353 times does not
give you a better chance at getting your question answered..
it
actually pisses off
the screeners
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pisses off the screeners
blue_gurl42: There
is a guy that was dunking me in the pool and only me! Is this
a sign of flirting
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sure
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you're probably wearing a bathing
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suit and he's probably wearing a tight speedo
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and you're in a pool
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on a hot dat
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that's day
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and he can't really touch you
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because you're both almost naked
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and all he's allowed to do
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to touch you
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is to dunk you
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personally, i think he sounds like a moron
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you could drown
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but then...
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he can do some mouth to mouth
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but it sounds like he was flirting
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clearly or he's just an idiot
axxcol: harlan sounds
like a pervert
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Sound like one
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but i'm not
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not today
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i'm just setting the scene
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as a guy
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that's the only way he can get close to you in the pool
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and touch you
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it's just like little kids hitting each other
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it's a form of flirting
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or at least getting someone's attention
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not all kids are flirting when they hit each other, but bathing
suit clad
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dunking is a good possibility
goodtimeboy99: yea
he might have the hots for u
axxcol: no he might
actually have been trying to drown you
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that would suck
mcdonalds_girly: ewwwwww
speedo's are gross!
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don't knock it 'til try it
stevev3419: maybe
they were playing around in the shallow end
virginand23: i am
24, a virgin and engaged. I am realyl uncmofortable with having
nothing on in front of someone nad I am terrified of my wedding
night
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it's perfectly normal to uneasy
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and that's why you should be marrying someone
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who you can talk to openly and honestly
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and move slowly
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if you can't talk to your fiance openly
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then it might not be time to get married
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I assume he knows you're a virgin
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and I assume he thinks you're beautiful
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in every way
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and that's what he LOVES sooo much
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that alone should relax you
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you can turn the lights out... take it slowly... and talk things
through...
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with the love of your life
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and turn something scary... into something special and intimate
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but know that he understands
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and wants to understand
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and loves you
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and know some comments...
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now... sorry about my crappy typing everyone
angrymormons: just
turn off the lights virgin
mcdonalds_girly: obviously
he thinks you're beautiful in every way. He's marrying you!!
:)
axxcol: go to the
beach with him or to a swimming pool
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that's almost naked
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seriously
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these bathing suits are just underwear with a different name
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it's so funny how someone
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can wear bathing suit
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and then feel so self conscious in their underwear
virginand23: I wouldnt
ever wear a bikini!
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really, well, I just hope you're comfortable with your body
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because until you can get comfortable
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with yourself
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it's going to be VERY hard to let someone else be comfortable
with you
virginand23: i am
not
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you're not comfortable?
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then that's something you need to work on immediately
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you need to know you're beautiful
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and accept yourself as beautiful
virginand23: i have
bulimia
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yeah
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these are serious issues that you need to explore
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and know that he loves you
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and will understand
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but you have to take the time to understand yourself
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and love yourself
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if you're not therapy and seeing a counselor
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please
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talk to someone immediately
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i used to be very overweight
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I was about 5 feet 3 inches tall
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and about 192 lbs
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i lost all the weight
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but i know what it's like to look in the mirror
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and not like what you see
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even if what other people see is beautiful
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you are beautiful
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and you can see yourself as beautiful
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but you need to get some help
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and over time
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you will see yourself the way your fiance sees you
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and that's beautiful
mcdonalds_girly: I'm
uncomfortable with every part of myself. I used to get teased
a lot when i was young(i'm 19 now), and my brother, when he
used to
get mad at me would
always call me fat. I think i'm average wait for someone my
height(5"4") but because of all the teasing I still
think i'm fat
mcdonalds_girly: only
on certain days do I like what I see in the mirror. That's a
couple days out of a month.. maybe a week
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It's the same thing...
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these things that people say hurt
virginand23: they
sure do!
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but you have to work to get comfortable with yourself
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to not listen to what people say
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to believe what you know to be true
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and that's getting comfortable physically
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that's all you can do
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and that's beauty
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and other people recognize that as beauty
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walk down the street
CHAT DIVA: or walk
on the beach and OMG to see what some people wear you'll be
so thrilled with your own body
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and see all the couples together... and you WILL see that beauty
exists in all different shapes and sizes
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it's all how YOU see yourself
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and you have to feel good about you
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and that takes time
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and surrounding yourself wiht people who love you
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and who can help you
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see that you are beautiful
aeaussie: Whats the
best/easiest way for a teenager to get a condom?
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you can actually get some online
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you can get them at a store
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you can get them for free at many public health services centers
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Planned parenthood
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your local college campus health center
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there are soooo many ways
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if you want them you can find them
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it's amazing where you can find condoms these days...
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new ones...
persephanie600: Go
to a gas stagton
idahocheerleader:
that's right! go aussie
weezers84: Go to counseler
at school
mcdonalds_girly: You
can buy them from the grocery store :-)
lanie2764: planned
parenthood gives them out...
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I know Trojan Condoms often gives free ones online
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www.trojancondoms.com
angrymormons: hell
condoms come in mcdonalds happy meals these days
juliette_162: come
to my house - my mom's a social worker and we have about a million
- actaully any clinic will give them out
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The Happy Meals?
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great with ketchup
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I've never seen one in a Happy Meal
mcdonalds_girly: hey....I
resent that
CHAT DIVA:
idahocheerleader:
but your parents will see them in the mail
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Have it sent to a friend...
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of just go the grocery store on your bike and get it
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no excuses
weezers84: with all
these ways out I dont see how people get pregnant
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let's move on
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Condoms fail most of the time because people don't know how
to use them properly
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about 1/4 of guys who think they know... don't!!!
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there should be room at the tip
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of the condom
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the instructions tell you to squeeze the air out of the tip
of the condom
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once it's on the penis
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there is usually a little resevoir tip
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that's the place where the sperm and semen go after ejaculation
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you can read instructions and Do's and Don'ts at www.trojancondoms.com
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the main reason people get pregnant
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is because of error
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human error creates more humans
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You only use them once!
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you make sure you use a water based lubricant
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NO Vaseline!
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No Crisco!
eusebiovalle: why
do we need a condom to have sex
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Because of sooooooooo many reason
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reasons...
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1) Pregnancy
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Sex without a condom is how people get pregnant
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2) STDs
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sexually transmitted disease like Herpes and Genital Warts effect
about 1 in 5 teens
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also HIV/AIDS is on the rise again
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condoms can help prevent sexually transmitted diseases
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These are just two reason... but reason enough
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it's scary to think that
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sex...
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can result in pregnancy and so much more
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think about that
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the next time you mess around
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it's very scary
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and condoms are only about 90 percent effective
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if you have sex use a couple forms of contraceptives if you
do not want to get pregnant
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spermicides and condoms are a great combo
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And one thing
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there is great medical Q & A at www.drdrew.com
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And any comments are welcome
ryan_49: are there
any harmful effects of getting a prince albert (penis piercing)
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Reading it is painful enough
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ouch
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why?
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Talk to your doctor
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talk to a urologist
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any time you poke a hole in your penis
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you're looking for trouble
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it's not going to make a relationship work
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your penis piercing
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why man
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why???
izzy_wizus: Why would
you pierce your penis?
angrymormons: why
would you want to turn your penis into a flute?
angel2angel81: why
would you want to get that anyways?
af_softball_chica:
there is this one guys i am totally in love with, both of us
were close to havin sex but we did not, how can i ask him if
he regrets doing
that or not?
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if you're this close with the guy
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you can ask him
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then that's the start of a whole new conversation
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if he says "NO"
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then you can still be friends
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and find a new guy to totally love
islandgirl70704: Hey
Harlan, I read your story in chicken soup for the teenage soul.
I really enjoyed it.What is your advice on online dating?
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Thanks! That's cool
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Online dating...
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These are my standard rules
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DO NOT GET EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED UNTIL YOU CAN MEET SOMEONE
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DO NOT KEEP YOUR ONLINE GUY A SECRET
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DO NOT KEEP THIS A SECRET
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MEET IN A PUBLIC PLACE
islandgirl70704: Help
me please Harlan. Tell me what I should do. I'M IN LOVE WITH
THIS GUY I MET ON THE NET WE'RE ASUPOOSED TO
MEET TOMORROW WHAT
SHOULD I DO?
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You're in love with him?
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that scares me
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You're in love with everything he's told you
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but you have NO CLUE what is true and what is not true
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I know it's IMPOSSIBLE to believe
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but not everything he's saying to you can be trusted
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there is no BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT in online dating
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check out this guys story if at all possible
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do a little investigation
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he needs to answer ALL of your questions
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if he refuses
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or makes you feel bad
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THAT's BAD
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the problem is that you're already so emotionally involved
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you don't want piss him off
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or upset him
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because there is already so much at stake
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that's the risk of getting so emotionally involved with someone
you've never met
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and keeping it a secret is bad
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you wouldn't keep other guys a secret
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this should be NO different
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that's a problem
islandgirl70704: how
do you think is the best way to go about being in love with
this guy without trust?
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You need to trust him
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but you can't just trust everything he's said online
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and the pictures he's sent
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and the conversations you've had on the phone
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I can't tell you how many times
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i've seen and heard stories
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about people getting their heart broken
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sure, it could be love
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but it can also be something far different
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you need to investigate this guy
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seriously
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and just be friends if you meet
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nothing romantic
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and make sure people know
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go VERY slowly
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and see how he treats you
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i've seen this so many times
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please listen
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as much as you want to rush into things
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go slowly
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and get back to me here
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send us an update
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and DO NOT KEEP THIS A SECRET
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please :)
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tell family and friends
izzy_wizus: you should
go with a bunch of peole if your going to meet this on;ine person
in person
angel2angel81: you
can never know if the person on the other side is 49 when he
says hes 20
angrymormons: speaking
of online dating... People in the Room are cybering? I guess
you can say Harlan has brought people together... what do you
think of cybersex,
phonesex etc
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it's funny because Diva is trying to Cyber me
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it's really making me uneasy :)
CHAT DIVA: Whatever
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oh, that must be me cybering myself
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oh sooo good
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cybering and phone sex... it's a fantasy
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if you're in a relationship it's wrong
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it's sharing intimacy with a stranger that should be shared
with your partner
islandgirl70704: thanks
angel izzy and harlan. thanks for the advice i'll e-mail you
harlan
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Come back here in the chat next week
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I get inundated with email...
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thanks!
izzy_wizus: I'm scared
to tell my freinds who I like because I'm scared of rejection.
What can I do to get over this fear?
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Yeah, this rejection thing is huge
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WE ARE ALL REJECTS
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MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE ROMANTICALLY
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and most of will get rejected
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it's totally normal
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rejection is the most feared and most normal part of dating
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and your friends are scared, too
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that's why they make jokes
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because they're soooo happy it's not them
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but when you do find that date
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and that girlfriend... they stop laughing
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and the only way to find those relationships is to risk getting
rejected and know it's normal
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actually on my website
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i'm creating the largest REJECT COMMUNITY
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TO SHOW THAT REJECTION IS TOTALLY NORMAL
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AND THAT WE'RE ALL HUGE REJECTS
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send me your REJECT STORIES
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you can submit them at: www.helpmeharlan.copm
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that's a typo :)
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submit them at: www.helpmeharlan.com/reject.html
HELP ME, HARLAN:
i
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am going to post reject stories next week
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but to finish this answer
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you have to train to be a reject
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you have to learn that reject is normal
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you have to celebrate rejection
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you do this by doing things that make you comfortable with yourself
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physically
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emotionally
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and spiritually
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then you don't give a crap
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if someone rejects you
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because you know you're GOOD
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you know someone will like you
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you know that it's part of the process
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so go out and get rejected
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and write me your story
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it's time to Celebrate RELATIONSHIP REJECTION
hotlips_444: WHEN
YOU HAVE BEEN REJECTED, DON'T STOP, KEEP DATIN AND TRYING TO
FIND MR. OR MRS. RIGHT
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That's why he or she is hotlips...
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perfect not to end this on
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note
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my typing sucks today :(
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sorry everyone!
HELP ME, HARLAN:
Diva says we're out of time, actually over
CHAT DIVA: Yep
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Thanks for stopping by
HELP ME, HARLAN:
Hey
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if you're looking to buy a gift
HELP ME, HARLAN:
my new book "Campus Life Exposed: Advice from the Inside"
is a very cool book
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it deals with teen life and college life outside
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the classroom...
angrymormons: I have
had girls physically put their hands in my face and everything
when I get rejected. I have had one tell me she cant be with
an
ugly guy like me becuase
of the looks she gets from fine guys when she is out with ugly
guys. Rejection is something I am learning to deal with!!
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Hey angry
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do me a favor and write it in... I'm working on a new reject
book
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and I would love to hear your story
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thanks everyone!!!
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Next week it's a Seventeen Chat!
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oh yeah , you can see me in Seventeen Magazine
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this July's issue
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in two week's were back with DIVA
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and thank you DIVA
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You're the best!!!
CHAT DIVA: Thanks
Harlan
CHAT DIVA: Have
fun with 17
CHAT DIVA: thanks
for the gazillion questions everyone
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And thans everyone for hanging out. Hope this helped!!!!!!!!!!
CHAT DIVA: Ciao
everyone
